My name is Aleksandra Roussiere-Tomaszewska

I am a professional listener.
I hear people’s needs, challenges and their potential. Therefore I can support them in creating a more fulfilling and happy life. I can foster their connection to each other with respect for everyone uniqueness.

I am an ICF Life Coach having accomplished a one-year ACSTH program in Life Coaching Center of Collegium Civitas in Poland.

My specialization is life transition coaching and nonviolent communication. I have been working since March 2015 with expatriate women from all over the world, based in Europe and Asia.

I work to support people through group workshops, individual sessions, pair and group mediations.

I am a graduate in Judicial and Extrajudicial Mediation with specialisation in Family Facilitation. Over time, I have enriched my technique with key Non-violent Communication tools, putting listening to needs at the center of the mediation process.

I am passionate about Nonviolent Communication for its value of inclusion and acceptance. I became a Candidate to certification in NVC in June 2017.

I deeply believe that the skills of non-judgmental: listening, self-empathy, observation and expression are factors of a deep personal transformation leading to an authentic and successful communication.

I took part in many residential trainings in Nonviolent Communication, lead by Certified Trainers:

  • 3-day Training: NVC Deepening Awareness with Louise Romain, February 2018, Bangkok, Thailand
  • 8-day Training: Transforming Organisations Through Collaborative Processes with Miki Kashtan, January 2018, Jaipur, India,
  • 8-day Training: Pathways to Inclusion and Creative Collaboration, September 2017, Pune, India
  • 5-day Training: Education for Life with NVC (working with Children, Teachers and Parents) with Kirsten Kristensen, January 2017, Bengalore, India,
  • 9-day International Intensive Training for Nonviolent Communication in Denmark, June 2017
  • 9-day International Intensive Training for Nonviolent Communication in India in September 2016.

I had participated in a 3-year series of NVC-based workshops for parents with Halina Gut since 2009.

Having “an eye of a photographer”, I use principles of phototherapy in my work, believing in indicative role of images in discovering oneself. The work with Points of you Coaching Cards is a perfect realisation of this passion. I had a chance to participate in an individual, intensive 2-days training in Points of You with Dorota Raniszewska, one of the first Points of You certified coaches.


As a basic education grade, I have a Master Degree in Romance Languages and worked for many years as French and Polish Foreign Languages lecturer.  I also owned a Real Estate Agency as a licensed Estate agent.

Recovered from a serious, so-called incurable illness by auto recovering and biotherapy, I make this experience available for my Clients. I love sharing, connecting and giving support. I also love writing, taking photographs, reading, travelling and changing  my mind for new perspectives.

I work in French, English and Polish language but can also understand Italian, Russian and Czech.

I am both a French and a Polish citizen. I’ve been living in Saigon since August 2015. Before coming to Vietnam, I used to move within Europe and stay in an international environment. I have three wonderful children.

I feel inspired by several methods and I find that everyone is entitled to choose the one that best suits him.

Personally I draw from the wisdom of the following philosophies: Bert Hellinger’s family constellations, Radical forgiveness, Mindfulness, Buddhist meditation practice, chakras knowledge and self-healing.

I am also inspired by family therapists: Virginia Satir, Carl Whitaker and Ivan Böszörményi-Nagy.

In my work, I put into practice the values described below:

All photos on www.communicating.life have been taken by me and are part of my private collection.

In my work I use the knowledge coming from my entire life experience and gift of every single person I met.



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